Originally posted on Crossfit Affiliate Blog
http://www.crossfit.com/cf-affiliates/2009/01/wednesday_090121.html
"Building the Fire-Breather" by Jerimiah Childress
Sometimes, we have a client walk through the door and they come prepared, physically and psychologically, to push themselves to the Pukie place, but most often people come in looking for fitness with a general curiosity about what makes us different from the other gym down the block. While the mechanical and aesthetic differences are immediately apparent, the psychological rigors needed and our ability to help them overcome those difficulties are often not in plain sight.
People who do not have an athletic background and those who have never even been in a gym are often completely unaware of their abilities. They often find themselves intimidated by the emotion, the competition, and the fortitude of our experienced athletes. To bring these people into the fold and open their eyes to the possibility that lays within them, we need to be very deliberate about the environment we create, how we push them, and what we focus on in their training.
We must create an environment where they feel comfortable from the moment they walk in the door. This can often be accomplished by simply taking a moment away from our experienced athletes to greet them with a smile, get their name, and, if in the middle of class, tell them how long until we are available. We must make sure that our current clients know that their response to new faces is often critical making someone feel welcome. If someone is spoken to by not only the person in charge, but also other patrons, the fact this is a different kind of place will be very apparent.
Knowing when to push the client and when to give them their space is critical. If someone has never pushed themselves before, they will often not have any clue about Pukie or Rhabdo, or that anything like that is even possible. The easy part is seeing the physical signs that someone is overexerting; the trick is understanding the body language that tells us that a client has been pushed too far psychologically. This will be different for everyone, so it is so important to make sure we know why they are here and what their motivations and their fears are.
CrossFit training has the ability to teach people much about themselves and reveal things in their character that they never knew resided there, but we must seek to understand the psychological struggles of our clients. We take them to the place where they can attack those struggles on their own everyday and allow them to step back from it as many times as necessary until they are ready to grab hold themselves.
Focus on form gives us the opportunity to celebrate small accomplishments. If our focus is form instead of intensity, knowing that good form and experience mixed with competition will naturally breed intensity, we give these people the opportunity to accomplish something small and begin to nurture the confidence necessary to overcome. If they are inexperienced with intensity, they may also be unfamiliar with winning as well. They will need to be given small tasks to work on, and every achievement will be a rewarded landmark to be built upon.
Again, our current clients can do wonders as their words and actions acknowledge and celebrate their peer's victory. Once accomplishment becomes a greater part of their life, and failures are turned into learning opportunities, a sense of freedom and the swagger of confidence will begin to fill our clients and we may find that they begin to lead the charge toward difficulty and become the conquerors we originally saw them to be.